Thursday, September 30, 2010

Parenthood - Jasmine and Crosby

I've been watching Parenthood and Modern Family since the inception of both shows. I like them both equally, but some things really bother me on Parenthood. I'm going to straight up list my feelings about Jasmine and Crosby. I'm not a fan of Jasmine. At all.

Ask any parent. Once you have a kid, your LIFE changes FOR your kid. She didn't change her life much at all, and continues to put EVERYTHING before her son.

Also, you should watch the show in depth. He offered to move up to NY because the travelling was taking it's toll. Skype is amazing, but it's not the same as living with your child. He wants that, she doesn't want to stop moving around!

Tell me, who is more of a parent? The person who would willingly give up their job and everything else for their child (in this case, Crosby though I'm sure he has his limits) or the parent who won't stop flitting around the country to "feed her soul". If you ask me, SHE is a terrible parent. Especially with how she withheld Crosby's son from him - WILLINGLY.

Yes, I consider it an unforgivable act to not tell the father (who is a decent guy) about his son. Crosby is not a drunken, abusive jerk. He's a guy that knocked a girl up and didn't know about it. She is a chick who got knocked up and won't even settle down for her kid (aka stop moving). She is obviously a bad person. She wanted to look like the good guy, but telling her family he knew but didn't care. Selfish. I would be more willing to understand if Crosby was a drunken jerk - but he's not. He has a stable job, a place to live, and loves that kid to death. Explain a GOOD reason for her NOT to tell him about their son? So far I'm hearing SILENCE and a bunch of EXCUSES.

I'm hoping he finally gets the nerve to take that kid from her. The kid is living with grandmommy instead of daddy. Last time I checked there is NO SUCH THING as grandparental rights in ANY state. AKA Daddy has a right to raise his son, and grandmommy doesn't.

I'm hoping that Jasmine gets finally called out for her nasty actions during this entire situation. She hasn't stepped up as a mother, let alone human being, and I doubt she ever will. Crosby isn't perfect, but so far he's a better parent then Jasmine.

I hope people replying to this topic have actually done some research on the topic before responding to it. Apparently, it is 100% legal to raise a child in your CAR (let alone a boat) and even CPS cannot get involved.

I dislike how Jasmine is constantly undermining Crosby's role as the father. She waited until her son was 5 (?) before even popping back up. Then she tells him that her career comes first over her child's stability (yes, picking up and moving every 3 weeks is not healthy), and now she is constantly acting like a grandparent has more rights then a FATHER. There is no such thing as grandparental rights, but there is such thing as PARENTAL rights.

She needs to get that through her head, and fast. I don't blame Crosby for threatening to get the sister involved. In fact, he should have gotten his custodial rights IN WRITING before now. I think Jasmine shouldn't have gotten angry at Crosby wanting to keep his son with him, especially after her lame excuses (Jabbar has stayed over with grandma more then you....WTF).

As per her attitude....I do consider it GHETTO, and no you don't need to be black to act ghetto. She acted like trailer park trash during that entire argument, and keeping a father away from his son is considered illegal (especially if he is helping raise the child/child support).

Edit: Loved the part in tonight's episode where Crosby told off the grandmother. Everything he said to her was 100% true, and honestly the grandmother has NO RIGHT to try to break that bond between them. I don't know if she has realized it or not, but SHE didn't have sex and create that kid. She is NOT the parent, and if anyone is running away from responsibility it's HER DAUGHTER!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Tellyn

I've been leading our guild since WoW came out. My husband is GM, but I pretty much run everything. I'm the one with the loot list, the complaints, watching people's dps/skill, you name it - I do it.

We have a guildie (chick) in our guild who literally cannot do anything right. She's pregnant and her boyfriend (or was it fiance?) is one of our main tanks (he's slow at everything). Now, this other officer chick and I make fun of her all the fucking time. She's an attention whore and in love with twilight. Why the fuck shouldn't we? Add on, she's pregnant and won't STFU about it. Seriously, she got pissed at my hubby for not looking at her ultrasound. LOLOL I'm not kidding! LOL

So, today we finally killed LK 25 (took us so long because of peopel like her). On this fight, the locks basically don't even need to move and pretty much should be OP on it. Wrong. Tellyn is the worst lock I've ever seen. She did 10k after we got rezzed by the boss, so we KNOW she can do the dps (I did 14k). Before that she was doing 7.5k dps. I died at 12k, she was the only other dps on my valk and let me die. The other dps was also grabbed.

Mind you. I've done a lot of research on her over the past few months. It's my job. Her actual dps should always rival mine (fire mage). We have the same exact gearscore (I'm above by 13 points - 1 277 piece over her 1 264 piece). We have the same exact trinkets. I move more, call out shit, and basically know what the fuck I'm doing.

Her average dps, after checking it, should be 11-13k. Mine should be 12k - which is 100% accurate. I'm not fluffing it up either. On H Blood Queen I do an easy 22-25k, and she does maybe 9k. With bite. She's not coming anywhere close to that. She's been doing MAYBE 8k tops. This isn't the first time I've noticed. I've been noticing it for months, and have tried to address it but her dps is a fucking ping pong. One day it's decent, the next day she sucks ass.

So, I had the hubby and myself pull her and her boyfriend (?) aside to talk to them about it. We tried to be nice, we explained in detail wtf was going on. She came up with the normal excuses. "I was on the phone tonight" "I'm having rl issues" "I'm pregnant". You list it, she's tried it before.

Shit, new people are blowing her outta the water in a hurry. She is seriously like a constant 12th on dps out of 15 dps (sometimes 14). It's not cause of gear. It's not cause she can't play. It's cause she is fucking lazy.

So, I'm chatting on vent after raid to the guildies. Telling them if their Gear Score is equal to mine, they should be pulling over 8k. I list Tellyn as a reference, and get on her about it again. (This was after attempting to do it in private, and she had the nerve to post in guild chat that she does an even 15k dps - my ass.) So, I addressed it as nastily as possible. I figure, if being nice doesn't work maybe being a prick will.

She gquits. LOL I call her an attention whore, who can't even do the dps of a new 80. Which is true. I was doing 8k dps as a new 80, with shit gear as frostfire. Naturally, they are in denial about her dps and her boyfriend (?) claims that I'm just picking on her (WAHHH) and that we WERE like family to her (WAHH AGAIN), but now she is butthurt or something.

LOLOL I told her she shouldn't come back until she can put on her big girl panties and address her dps issues. That it had nothing to do with the fact that she is an attention whore (yes, I said that out of spite), or that I dislike her. It was because after months of throwing loot at her, I'd had enough. I probably won't ginvite her back.

PS. Nothing is ever her fault. She's getting kicked out of her apartment because she can't pay the rent, yet claims the roommate is a bitch. She wants to claim (because she is pregnant and her boyfriend isn't working) that she is single with medicaid and the government to get free housing benefits (etc). She's in love with twilight, and thinks the books are a work of art. LOL Her mother was payin for her cellphone but stopped because the mom didn't want to pay for it when her boyfriend won't even get a job (forced parenting to grow the fuck up) - yet her mother is a bitch cause of it. Btw: My hubby didn't care to see my sonograms, so why the fuck would he want to see yours??

The list goes on. This is the type of person she is. I don't like this type of person.

Update: 8/13/2013

Tellyn has since remained in contact with all of us from the original guild (yes, we still exist).  I once jokingly suggested she name her kid Jayden.  My cat's name is Jayden.  Know what she named her kid?  Jaden.  LOL  Different spelling but the same.

She has since had another kid.  She left the original fiance, and took the kid illegally with her.  He no longer sees his own child, but they are both deadbeats...so I don't care.  What gets me is that she disappeared in the middle of the night with his child, without telling him.  It's been 2 years since he's seen his daughter.

She has another child with her now current fiance, and she is still an attention whore like no other.  Everyday on facebook, she is linking pictures of how cute her kids are.  I get it that you think your kids are adorable, but there is a limit to posting pictures.  Just because your kid is eating bananas (AGAIN), doesn't mean I want to see it EVERYDAY.  I eventually had to turn off her status updates, it was that fucking annoying.

She also likes to have "private conversations" with my husband about her life.  Attention whore, find a different man to talk to.  He doesn't even like you.  He removed her off his facebook, and she freaked out like she was his ex-wife or something.  He has no ties to you.  He's not required to look at your shit, nor talk to you.  Get a life!

VOA 10 (Pug) - What fun!

Just got done with a VOA 10 pug. I offered to help my OP pally healer, even though I don't need anything from it. I know I'm a badass pally healer, I've been told numerous times. I heal 11/12 H 25 every week on my alt, and if my heals are good enough to be a main tank healer (on my alt with shit gear), then I was pretty sure I could handle a pug. Who knew I was wrong!

Get in there with 2 tanks, first tank has entered too many instances and we decide to try with only one tank. Everything is going fine. Druid healer finally catches up to us, and gets 1 shot by the icebolt (from the add before the boss). I laughed hardcore, though not in public.

Apparently this put the druid healer in a pissy mood. He is also in shit gear. He apparently thinks he's god's gift to tank healers as well. I'm spamming the shit outta the tank, and pull off to do a holy shock on my guildie (the one I'm helping) since he was almost dead. Tank drops instantly. That 1 holy shock could have been a holy light, and would have saved the tank. I had been randomly trying to help heal the raid but everytime I pulled off the tank he'd drop and I'd scramble to catch up again.

After tank dies, I drop down to almost non-existant health. I had around 100 hp and so I did the first thing that came to my mind - di'd the druid healer. Apparently, that is a bad call since he was going to brez the tank (even though the dps was dying all around him).

I check the charts, I'm doing an easy 7.5k hps and the druid is doing 4.4k hps. I'm double him on both tank and raid. I'm like huh...that's odd, isn't he a druid? Shouldn't he heal the raid? Apparently, I'm mistaken! After we wipe, the druid starts in on me - saying that HE was the one keeping the tank alive.

Apparently, since I have beacon my flashes should have kept the tank up (regardless that I was literally spamming the shit out of him with holy light) and that I was a noob for DI'ing him. Okay. He kept going on for a good 10minutes, and basically at the end claimed the same thing I did "I pulled off the tank and he died". Uh what? Man, whatever. I try to keep my mouth shut, I respond very little. Really unlike me.

So, after all my awesomeness in heroic 25 and basically carrying baddies like that druid - I have no idea how to heal. Go figure. We eventually got another tank and tied on healing (he focused tanks, and I healed everyone). I seriously slacked off, cause I honestly didn't give a shit.

I asked my hubby (GM and our raid leader) about it. He says I was 100% right. It turns out you can only 1 tank it with 2 BADASS healers (super geared), or with 3 healers (my gearscore) - one being a pally. That the pally should NEVER pull off the tank, since it's exactly like solo healing tanks during heroic 25 bosses. Yup. I was right, but looked like the bad guy cause he was causing such a stink.


THIS is why I never pug.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Speech Developmentally Delayed Child VS State Workers

I've been trying to get my eldest into a specialized pre-school, that specializes in speech development for over 2 years. We've had numerous problems from our insurance not covering privately funded operations to state workers named Kim Barfus who don't do their jobs.

I have a friend that works for CPS in Az. I told him about my problem, and while we live in different states, he has helped immeasurably. He was the one who told me that the state actually provides FREE and usually BETTER pre-school speech development programs. He provided me with a number for a local pre-school (Riverside Preschool), and the number for Kim Barfus - who apparently sets everything up.

She is a state worker, same as my friend. However, there is a key difference between my friend and Kim. Kim is lazy. The first time I tried to contact her was in June (after over 2 years of trying to muck my way through it alone). She didn't answer my phone calls and didn't call me back. Then I sent an email on July 9th, and basically said the same thing I said on my phone messages. I didn't get a response until July 15th. She was on vacation and would contact me when she got back.

I got a call back finally on August 24th. I had missed the week's previous call from her, since my daughter was having teeth surgery and things were hectic. Please note the dates. I even checked my phone to make sure those dates were correct. Note also, after a little bit of math, that is over 40 days after I got a response from her via email. That is one damn long vacation, bitch. Whatever, I was happy to get a call back. She will now blame ME for not answering my phone that ONE time (did today).

During that phone conversation, I briefly described my daughter's speaking habits and WHY she needed to be in to see a specialist who can diagnos how bad she is. Meaning, if she is super bad she goes to a special pre-school and if not so bad then she only goes 2x a week for 2 hours total. Awesome, right? Well, here's the kicker...apparently there are over 10 kids in front of my kid even though I've been trying to set this up since June. Also, apparently her secretary is going to call me to set up the appointment.

I waited. I waited until about a week ago. Then, I started spam calling. Bitch, doesn't answer the phone. Today, I finally lose it. It's Sept 15th. We've been waiting a total of 16 days for a call to set up the appointment, since she called me. Total of 56 days to just get her in to be seen.

When I didn't get through to Kim (no surprise there), I started hitting extensions until I got a live person to talk to. I basically said we had waited since June, and we wanted a least an appointment set up. 2 years total, and I can't wait any longer for a fucking date at least. She takes down my information and calls guess who calls me back! KIM BARFUS NOT FIVE MINUTES LATER!

Bitch is being a bitch on the phone. Basically says it's been "July 15th", not June. Like that matters, whatever floats your boat honey. She tells me SHE can set up the appointment RIGHT THEN on the phone. What?! No secretary? WTF. Basically treats me like this is MY fault, because I missed the ONLY call she placed to my phone in the last 56 days. Yeah, okay. So I lie. I'm like, "Well, my daughter's doctors are harassing me to know when she will be seen and I can't keep stalling them any longer."

October 22nd 9am. My CPS friend tells me now that I am done bugging the shit outta them to be super nice as shit. My daughter is behind a grade now because of that bitch. They won't let her in for this school year because Kim Barfus took so long. So, even after waiting all of that time, my daughter is behind. Thanks Kim. YOU SUCK AT YOUR JOB! IF YOU DON'T LIKE DOING YOUR JOB, THEN STOP WORKING THERE BITCH!


This is their website for the school: http://www.lcsd.logan.k12.ut.us/riverside/

Notice at the bottom it says preschool teacher next to her name. That bitch doesn't have a secretary.

Edit: Caused a stink with the board of education. They are looking into a better way to get her into that exact preschool (there are none others in this area), thank god. I know I made her look bad, but hey, if you act like a lazy worthless bitch, you deserve it. I should also mention that there is a federal law that protects military children getting into any type of school at a young age (6 and under). Apparently, they are required to take them in no questions asked...no issues. Way to break the law, scuzzbag.

Lady Gaga VS PETA

LOL. That story made me laugh. Gaga apparently wore a suit of meat to the VMAs? LMFAO Awesome. She probably did it as a political stand point. Funny as shit. I usually think her outfits are a little out there (like the airplane picture), but shit this one was too funny to laugh at.

Back in the day, PETA used to throw blood on people at the red carpet in REAL fur. They used to pretend like it wasn't their fault, they weren't going to pay for it yadda yadda. Gaga picked the perfect way to get back at them.

Yeah, I know there are some freak vegans out there and all that jazz. I'm a big meat eater. We hunt, fish, and do all kinds of shit that PETA would hate. We're top of the food chain, and there should be no reason why you shouldn't eat your kill etc. Sorry, but bambi is very tasty.

PETA made a comment about maggots being infested in the meat by the end of the show IF it were real. That made me laugh too. Assuming there were flies attracted to her meat suit, the maggots wouldn't "spawn" in less then 8 hours. Assuming that is how long the VMAs lasted. The larvae of flies actually take 8-20 hours to turn into maggots.

And...after doing a lot of research. Here is how long the actual show lasted at the VMAs. The preshow was 2 hours. From 7pm my time, till 9pm my time. The actual VMAs this year was going from 9pm my time, till about mightnight my time. That's 3 hours? Not enough time to have maggots crawling everywhere. I'm sure you can add in a few hours for her to get dressed, and the after party. Still not enough time.

PETA, you are officially retarded again, and you claim to know SO much about EVERYTHING animal and insect-related. Cute.

Side note: The video about Gaga stealing her dead "friend's" style, is a little whacky. Seems like this Lina Morgana's mother is jealous. Some of the pictures in the video don't even resemble each other, and if they do - that could be blamed on the STYLIST and the VIDEO director. While I feel bad for her that her daughter died, I don't think ripping on someone you claim was her "friend" is the way to grieve. Hell, Gaga could be dressing this way as a homage to your daughter. Ever think of that? Makes sense if they were SOO close. The mom seems pathetically obsessed with someone, who claims, doesn't even fucking know her. In the artist world, there are millions of copy-cats out there. Nothing is ever truly "original". Hell, Cher or Madonna have more of a right to be pissed at YOUR daughter if YOUR daughter is the originator of Gaga's "style".

As per mommy dearest's comments about her daughter not getting to show the world her style because Gaga ripped it off? TACKY! Your daughter took her life, probably because you were a shit mother. That is NOT ANYONE'S fault but YOURS AND YOUR DAUGHTER'S! Take some responsibility, bitch. Also, would you REALLY be proud of your daughter dressing like that? No WAY I would let MY kid dress like a whore.

Also, not really a Gaga fan.

Drama, Drama, Drama!

Couldn't sleep, so was watching the news. Apparently some nigger (and yes, I say nigger because obviously the mother isn't acting like an upstanding individual - same would go for a cracker etc), decided that it was a-okay to give their child some pot. That's fucked up. What's worse is the state decided to give the child to relatives! OMFG! If the mother thinks it's okay to give her 2 yr old pot (so much so that the 2 yr old smokes it better then me!), what makes them think that the other relatives are upstanding individuals? Granted, they could be. But, usually, parents like this learn this shit from their own parents.

What the fuck kind of mother would do that? That child is still developing her brain, and she's giving the kid pot (which is in no way a good thing). My official stance on pot is: if you are 15 yrs old and older, just don't drive while you do it. I don't want you running my kids over with your car. Hell, I'm not a big fan of it. It's illegal for a reason. But, do I feel like keeping tabs on all the medical studies on it? Not really. But a 2 year old?! What fucking person in their right mind would do that shit!!

That's not even parenting. That's corrupting. I hope that mother gets some severe jail time. People should be required to get a license to have kids! For fuck's sake, that shit doesn't even make sense!

Video: http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=8579047118389543721


On another note, about stupid ass niggers wasting people's time. Elle magizine recently came out with a cover of some fat actress. The black community is up in arms about it (apparently it's racist LOLOLOL), because the blacken looks like she has lighter skin then she really does. Get this: The actress doesn't care, but apparently the Al Sharptons' of the world DO. Does her skin look lighter? Yup. Does she look WHITE? Nope. You can tell she's black. Is it a big racism issue? Hell the fuck no. Grow up people, pick on something IMPORTANT to get upset about! LIKE REAL RACISM! Fucking idiots.

It could have been the make-up she was wearing during the shoot, could be that she was super tanned on the red carpet, the lighting could have fucked it up, OR god forbid she could have used a skin lightener temporarily. The point is: If the actress doesn't give a shit, and it's obviously not a hate crime - get the fuck over it!

First they complain about black chicks not being represented enough, and when we DO represent them they just find something else to bitch about! Ever heard of picking your battles? Apparently not. You fight EVERYTHING!

Comparable pictures: http://scoop.newsvine.com/_news/2010/09/16/5120908-was-gabourey-sidibes-skin-lightened-on-elle-

Edit: Actress' name is Gabourey Sidibe.

I'm not sure why America is even celebrating her as being a "normal, healthy" girl either. She's not curvy. She's not attractive to 99% of men out there (minus the ones that are fatty chases). She's fat. She's unhealthy. Does it matter if they cropped her photo? Yes. I don't want my daughter seeing the super skinny people on magazines, as much as I don't want her seeing the morbidly obese either. If you are fat, go on a fucking diet. I don't care if you have some rare fat disease. Put down the fucking fork. That is NOT healthy, and we should NOT be acting like it is. Don't get all uppity about the skinny, anorexic bitches on there and then say hey, it's okay to put fatties instead. No. It's not, stop being a fucking hypocrite. You can't go from anorexic (scale 1-10, 1) to morbidly obese (10). You need IN BETWEEN.

Oprah, get your head out of your ass. I'm not even sure WHY you still have followers, OR while you promoted this poor girl. You are fucking racist, hate certain types of music, and now are apparently on this fat, black chick kick. Plus, majorities of the books you recommend put me to sleep in a minute (please go read some Nietzsche). I don't care if she's your neice's aunt's nephew's sister. She's fat. She needs to at LEAST go on a diet until she is a HEALTHY weight first. Make sure you tell Paris Hilton that too. Way to promote someone that shouldn't even be in the spotlight to begin with.

And no, before you fuckers say it, this is NOT jealousy. I am a NORMAL healthy weight. I want MY kids to KNOW it's okay to be about 5 lbs heavier then the anorexic bitch next to you. It's okay to have a little bit of a belly. It's NOT okay to take up an entire elevator with your FAT ROLLS!



And...while we're bitching about dumb ass niggers, here is another story I heard tonight. Michael Jackson's mother is sueing AEG. Meaning, she thinks they worked her poor baby too hard. He was what? 30? Hi, your son knew what the fuck he was doing. For that matter, should he have sued you after YOU worked him to death? What a hypocrite! Take some responsibility for what your son did to himself!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Real Housewives of NJ - Reunion

Watched the entire thing with my husband. He has not watched the two seasons, and even he still thinks Danielle is fucking fake and psycho. Even the hugs at the end, he was sitting there like "Yeah, I completely believe that shit is real." I don't think Caroline was upset that Jaceline went "against her". Obviously, she just wanted it to all end. However, Caroline could even tell it was fake as shit. I don't like fake people.

Does anyone else notice when Danielle doesn't want to answer something, she runs away? She ran away like 5 times during that, and complained to the make-up artist. I mean, come on. Even during the show, she was bitching at her armed guard or anyone that would listen. I doubt people care about her life that much.

I did like the comments she was making about being a born-again virgin, yet she is out there making sex tapes. LOL Yeah, a virgin. I believe that. LMFAO

As per the hair exstension thing, I watched Andy try to pull that out and it looked really difficult. He was having a reall hard time doing it. Plus, if you looked at Andy's face, he doesn't like Danielle at all.

Throughout the entire thing, Danielle didn't own up to shit. She constantly lied again, and even when it was pointed out that she was lying - she kept on lying. Editting does NOT cover up that much. I'm sorry, I hate people that blame editting. She's so full of shit. You can only edit so much, she obviously was a drama-whore and stirred up shit nonstop. Editting doesn't hide who you are or what you do.

In the end, she's still a fucking psycho.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Real Housewives of NJ -- Season 2, Episode 16

Someone made another comment about how they hated the old, self-adoring bitch Caroline...who everyone seems to think is manipulative. I'm not sure why. Are they even watching the same show as me? Here's my response to that.

Yet, Danielle is the perfect model citizen? She's not old and self-adoring?

I think Caroline started out with good intentions until Danielle blew everything into a drama-fest. You do realize how crazy it is to bring an armed guard with you for a meeting, right? A bodyguard (if she truly thought Caroline was going to attack her) would have been enough, but that many guns and people to "protect" her? Come on now. Does she think she's the queen of England?

Do you think Danielle is in her 20s? Because, obviously, she's not. She's also old, and obsesses over herself way too much. Even when she talks with her "friends", everything is about her. God forbid someone else have something going on in THEIR life. They might steal the show!

PS. The energist is a little creepy.

But otherwise, Ashley still needs to grow up. She is still being a little brat and needs to learn her place in this world. She still thinks she did nothing wrong, and honestly she SHOULD hear it over and over again. She needs to grow the fuck up and stop treating her mom that way. Ashley says she fights too much with her mom about Danielle, but Ashley doesn't even let her mom talk at all. She interrupts and looks like an asshole all the time. Ashley needs to learn that she will stop fighting with him mom, when she realizes that her mom is trying to HELP her. She acts like just because she is 19 that she doesn't need to respect her mother anymore. It doesn't work like that bitch.

Honestly, when Danielle is proven to be a pathological liar by Caroline - she attempts to throw the same exact questions back at her or change the subject. Danielle couldn't prove that Caroline directly attacked her personally, so she flip-flopped the other direction.

Caroline was surprisingly really calm during the entire thing, whereas Danielle was out for blood from the get-go. I can't believe that Danielle is blaming her failed friendships on Caroline. Caroline didn't even talk to those women, and wanted nothing to do with them. What a joke!

Caroline actually attempted to have a civil conversation with her until Danielle just kept insulting her family and attacking her. When Danielle got backed into yet another corner, she insulted Caroline's friends who are supposedly under indictment. I mean, come on. You can't say shit about Caroline when she hasn't even been around your ass. Talk about that headspinning around Danielle. What a psycho!


Side note:
Her music video is fucking terrible. Whoever gave her a mic and told her she could sing, should be hung by their balls until they slowly die. Who the hell is the other chick?

http://www.popeater.com/2010/08/24/danielle-staub-real-close-real-housewives-of-new-jersey/

Depression or Recession?

Someone currently brought up a topic of debate with me today. Are we in a depression or a recession? I honestly have no fucking clue. So, here's the definitions of both.

Recession - A period of economic contraction, sometimes limited in scope or duration.

Depression - A period during which employment, business, and stock-market values decrease severely or remain at a very low level of activity.

They are both about the same thing, but I am still standing by depression as it fits our situation better. Especially after all the "fixes" the government keeps trying to make. If you'd notice the description of "depression" completely FITS our country's situation for the last 4 (ish) years. Since, we're still in debt over $3 trillion, I will almost always consider us in "jeopardy".

I think originally we were in a depression, and IF everything is getting continually better - then a recession. But, honestly, I'm still leaning towards depression just because I still see employments really low, foreclosure rates high as shit, and the news still freaking out over the market going up 50 points.

After Midnight - Part 2

So...after that raid, and after I posted it on the realm forums, I got reponses back from all of her many guildies (the raid leader, guildies, and herself). Most of them insisted I was a sexist male prick for using the "vulgarity" bitch. I'm a chick. LOL I was accused of purposely pulling trash, even though I had to rez the dumbasses who were dying to the flames right before the Valks. It's too much of a coincidence to say in raid "stop messaging me, I'm healing" and then to get kicked out of the raid... I also prewarned the tank that was in there tanking at the time, and my guildies to get out before they all died. I was main tank healer, and obviously my guildie was raid healer. Way to kick out your healers DURING a pull. They claimed my purposely pulling trash caused the wipe, not kicking me out. If people are wiping to valks, they shouldn't be raiding. That's terrible.

I obviously didn't pull the valks. I was obviously willing to keep going, as I had healed all of Saurfang and rezzed their dumb asses who died to the frogger. It was obvious I was kicked from raid. Even the tank that was tanking would vouche for that, as would all my guildies in that run. My guildies were also kicked out of the raid during the trash pull.

The amount of slams in their responses was insane. I decided to make a final response and let it end. Who cares, happened weeks ago. I didn't appreciate her acting like she wasn't at fault, and I really didn't appreciate her retarded response. She pretty much said I was sexist, used vulgar words, hateful, and that she didn't need to explain everything she does. It was one question and not even fucking abusive. So...this was my final response.

"We weren't on vent. I didn't even know she was a chick. I assumed. I called him a guard dog AFTER over 15minutes of spam. I was attempting to heal, told him multiple times to leave me the %### alone. I don't blame their guild, I blame Caleka and Xristoph. Kennar attacked after I asked in raid, but dropped it.

I'm not 10 yr old, and yes I do have a guild here. A REAL guild. As per not posting on my main. I don't feel the need to soil my OWN guild's name. There's no point to needless drama. I don't blame their guild, I blame the actions of two (maybe 3?) individuals. I understand why Xristoph messaged me, but when I told him to stop messaging me that should have been that. Not this spam for 15min deal. Not the kicking. None of that. If he called any of MY guildies a @*%@@ after acting like that, I'd laugh my ass off. We all take responsibility for our actions here, we own up to our *!##.

The point was: If my guildies did that, I'd be all over them. You don't purposely wipe a raid like that just because someone says to stop messaging them. Two nasty things were said. "Guard dog" and "Psycho ##!##". How DARE I have an opinion after I'm attacked in the middle of the raid. I don't think what I said was a good enough reason to do something like that.

Caleka, if you had said in raid that it was your bad instead of the spam in raid...like I said, I would have said "oh ok". No biggie. I was honestly curious, your reaction was an overreaction. I don't think you were required to explain it, but I asked a simple question and got a lot hate in response. If you don't like people asking questions - then don't pug. If you don't like opinions, then please stop going out into society.

I also don't think "why did you roll on that?" is not polite. It's a question. It's not a "WHY ARE YOU %###ING ROLLING ON THAT YOU %###ING WORTHLESS PERSON". Complete difference. I didn't type in caps, I didn't attack you. I was curious.

Am I making a big deal out of this? Not really. So far the only people that have responded have been from YOUR guild. Huh. I could get all my guildies that were there to respond too, but that'd be pointless. I think people should be aware of the way you reacted to a simple situation that ALL of us have had to deal with before.

I also didn't call you a ##!## until after you freaked out in raid, because I asked (I made sure to not attack until even my own guildies were saying WTF). Read your own response and please try to realize how hypocritical you sound. You say that the question was rude, that you don't like people questioning EVERY move you make (1 question), and then say I called you a ##!## right off the bat. Your chill out was BEFORE I called you a ##!##. That's why I called you a ##!##. Don't act like one if you don't want to be called one. You don't like being called a ##!## and consider it a "vulgarity". Would c*nt be better? I could have said that or any thing else I wanted to. It's freedom of speech and a casual observation.

As per vulgarity. I'm a chick, you dumb#@@#. If you act like a ##!##, I have EVERY right to point it out. If you don't like someone asking a question, then don't spam them with tells and don't act like a psycho. If you don't like seeing the word ##!##, turn on your filter.

And yes. I CAN call "ladies" a ##!##, if they act like one. Don't act like I'm some sexist dude. I'm a chick. I WILL point it out IF you act like a crazy person. If you don't like the question, don't fly off the handle. If you don't like being called a ##!##, have some respect and don't act like one.

According to your response, I'm a lady too. Then I shouldn't be cursed at nonstop in tells for over 15minutes (I'm pretty sure there were quite a few "vulgarities" in there too). I was busy. I also shouldn't have to put up with you pmsing all over the raid. That's my right. So, you can take your sexist bull#@@# and shove up your ass. Just because you are a chick, doesn't mean that you can attack someone and expect nothing back. Have some imaginary balls and at least attempt to take some responsibility for your actions. You were a hateful #%@%%. Apparently you live in some sheltered world where #!*%% is a super insult, and no one ever uses it! Also, you don't own up to your actions. You act like you're above the law and I won't call you out for acting crazy. Well, I did. If you don't like it, don't act that way in public.

Now, I am not going to respond to this again. You obviously have some sort of mental deficiency. I'm going to be avoiding you AND your guild. I prewarned my guildies never to do anything like that (they all laughed about the whole thing), and not to pug with your guild. You and Kristoph should be ashamed of the way you handled the situation over a QUESTION.

Edit: I made the thread named After Midnight because their guild run. I curse like a sailor. I didn't pull those valks, tank did ask him."

The raid leader's mature response was basically QQ (which those 3 all said to me before kicking me out of the raid, lol). Something about auto-looting items. (?) I didn't even need anything out of ICC normal. LOL Whatever. I can't even use the drop as a paladin (the Midnight Sun that I questioned). I wasn't QQing over someone else getting the loot, and I obviously wasn't QQing at all. I told him to stop messaging me, not "wahhh he's bothering me". Nah, none of that shit. More like, if you don't stop messaging me I will fucking leave. Apparently, he didn't like that response. :)

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Real Housewives of NJ

I've been watching RHWONJ since it came out. I've never been a fan of Daniel. I'm from Jersey and honestly, I HATE people like her. She manipulates situations just so she can come across as the victim. Exactly as the other women on the show are saying. (If I call her Daniel instead of Danielle, my bad, she looks like a man)

So far, from this season and last season, Danielle has not changed her act at all. I agree with the other housewives. She's the same old Daniel. Every episode she creates drama out of nowhere, and she lies CONSTANTLY! The lying is driving me nuts. I'm honest as fuck, so naturally when I see someone getting away with such hurtful and mean-spirited lies - I get pissed off for the REAL victims!

As per the Kims, I think they are just feeding into the drama just to be on TV. I think both of them know what Daniel is like, and are just trying to get a spot on the show or something more.

I know that Teresa is really obsessed with looks etc. However, who cares if it's fake? Do you look down on people that shop at a thrift store too? If it looks nice and you can get it for cheaper, that's always better.

I have the same exact accent as Teresa. That doesn't mean that I need an English class. I graduated top of my college class and my high school class. As I got older and moved out of NJ, the accent started to disappear. That's like telling someone from the south, who has a strong accent, that they need to learn to talk. What about all the people that don't even speak English and speak Spanish instead? Why don't you tell them to learn the language. Having an accent is no big deal. Everyone has one.

Do I think Teresa has an anger problem and a spending problem? Hell yeah. I think her kids are spoiled, but I don't really blame Teresa for wanting her kids to have a better life then she had. I think she might of gone overboard, but it's HER life. Not mine. I can't judge her parenting skills and then look at Danielle who has absolutely NO parenting skills. It goes both ways.

Teresa spoils her kids too much, and Danielle treats her kids like an accessory. Which is better? I'd rather like to think the spoiling is better. At least, when Teresa's kids get older they can learn what real life is all about and change. However, Danielle's kids will NEVER get over how their mother acts and treats them. Even the smallest reward, is never a reward for them. Ex: The party to celebrate her daughter's modelling career, wasn't even about her daughter. It was about Danielle wanting to brag. She didn't even have a party to celebrate for her daughter WITH her daughter. That's terrible parenting!

Caroline, I have a lot of respect for. She is down to earth and honest. She doesn't manipulate things behind the scenes like everyone says. She tries to stay the fuck away from Danielle. I don't blame her. She doesn't like Danielle and shouldn't be forced to put up with her. She has a love for her family that I respect immensely.

I like Dina. She doesn't want anything to do with Danielle, and it's HER right to say that to Danielle. Even when she was trying to calmly inform Danielle that she didn't want anything more to do with her (after giving her multiple tries), Danielle had the nerve to say that Dina didn't have the RIGHT to block her out. Um...yeah she does, you fucking moron. This just goes to show how mature and real Dina is compared to the screwed up Danielle. It sucks that we won't get to see more of Dina, but I think it's for the best.

Jaceline is a push over. She doesn't have control over her daughter at all. She hates Danielle, yet keeps getting sucked into it all. I think Jaceline is a nice person, but I also think she doesn't mind "being in the middle". She needs to get Ashley on track, cause that kid is fucking out of control.

Real Housewives of NJ - Season 2 (Gun Safety)

Side note about the gun safe. Someone commented on a message board about Jaceline's husband's gun safe, not really being safe. What an idiot. As was stated in this episode, even his wife doesn't know the combination code. She only found out what was in there ON the show. I know they also have a security system installed.
I doubt anyone is going to break in to steal their HUGE gun safe.

Yeah it is hard to crack a combination. I'm sure many people have no idea how to do it. Even if someone did attempt to break into the safe, most safes are equipped with automatic locking mechanisms. For example, if someone tries to drill into it. Or if they enter the wrong combination.

If his OWN WIFE doesn't know the combination, I'm sure he's not just giving it out. Assuming someone even broke into the house and got passed all of their other security systems. They even have cameras installed throughout their house.
Let's all fear for our lives now because he has guns unloaded locked up in a protected environment.

I'd honestly like to think that people would have more of a problem with people who DON'T lock up their guns, then with people who actually attempt to lock them up. The poster actually acted like someone was going to break into their house and steal all of their weapons. Seriously? That doens't happen. What an idiot.

My husband is military and hunts a lot. We have a gun safe with two combination locks on it. We don't have near the amount of security that this couple has. Does that mean we're not being safe? Hell no. Our kids don't even know where the safe is, let alone what's in it. Just because people have guns, doesn't mean that it's okay to assume that someone is going to steal them and go on a mass murdering spree. I'd think if someone actually did break in, they'd steal someone else like jewelry. I doubt anyone would purposely break in just to steal some hunting rifles.

Apparently, the issue is not the fact that it's locked up, but the fact it was /gasp, shown on TV. Oh no! NOT ON TV. This was my response to the dumbass, who supposedly teaches a gun safety course.

"You caught me. I'm going to purposely break into their house, pass up all the jewelry and everything else, just to steal some unloaded hunting rifles. Just because "their location" was on tv. The location wasn't directly shown. It's in a safe, unloaded and locked up. They have a massive security system, that I doubt even a normal run of the mill robber would want to attempt. Let's make a big deal out of nothing.

My husband is military and an avid hunter. We keep ours locked up in the same exact gun safe. Do I show people where it is? Yup. Why would my brother-in-law want to steal my hunting rifle when he could just ask for it?

I'm sure the people watching this show either have no idea where exactly they live, nor care to break into their house to steal guns. If I think as a robber, I'd rather steal some diamonds then some guns that can be traced back to where I stole them from. I'd also really not like to deal with the security cameras.

I doubt anyone watching this show is honestly thinking they know where the guns are, and are going to steal them now. LOL I hope you realize that most families don't own a house as big as theirs, or that their gun safes are usually out in the open for the world to see. Just thinking back on my relatives, I know exactly where their guns are located. So far, no robberies. My father-in-law keeps a loaded rifle on the top of his fireplace. No one has even attempted to break in and "steal" it.

If you teach a gun safety course, I'd like to think you'd have MORE of an issue with the people that do NOT lock up their guns. But you are attacking them just because their guns were shown on TV? LOL Wow, they showed it on TV, what a super huge deal! I doubt anyone is going to break into their house just to steal them. Plus, normal run of the mill families do NOT "hide" their gun safe. It's usually in an office, master bedroom, or in the basement. Out in the open. /gasp

You are picking on a small issue. With their security system and everything else they have, I doubt it is a national security issue. LOL So what. They showed it on TV. You didn't see the combination, and it would take a lot of intelligence to break in there without leaving something behind.

Are you going to jump on them for putting on their diamond earings in front of the TV too? We know their location now too. Someone could steal them! What about the cars they leave parked in their driveway? We see them all the time. Someone could take them!

Have you never even looked at the hunting channel? You might have a heart attack. /gasp They show unlocked guns ALL the time. They even (/gasp) show their location!

PS. It actually is difficult to break into a safe. If you think you can get a stethescope and break into it, you can't anymore. Most safes have automatic freeze locking systems now.

For the record: I don't think you really teach a gun safety course. You can't even type correctly. There is a big difference between "showed" and "shown". Like I said, it would take a lot of intelligence to get around all of their security measures and break into their safe. As SHOWN by the way you type, you would have a lot issues doing that."

This dumb bitch actually thinks she can break into this exact safe. Just by "guessing" the combination.

http://www.gunsafes.com/Mesa-Safes-1-Hour-Fire-26-Gun-Safe.html

What a dumb bitch.

Edit: After this post was made, I was called a crazy bitch. LOL Yeah, I'm nuts for thinking it's insane to get pissed off over something on tv. I think if people are gonna attack them, at least pick something worthwhile. Not something so small.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Real Housewives of NJ - Season 2, Episode 10

I just got done watching the blow out at the country club and HAD to comment. Danielle was calling Jacelyn's daughter a coke whore, sitting on her phone during the entire even because (wahhh) she wasn't sitting near the host, attacking Teresa's financial situation, and then to top it all off - she breaks a heel and claims she can't fucking walk. Are you serious?!

I get that Teresa probably wanted to see if they could talk and be somewhat civil to each other since they seem to run in the same circles. However, Danielle handled that situation VERY badly. She acted like a child! I laughed when Teresa called her an old hag and a bitch, cause she is one!

I thought it was funny that Daniel's friends were trying to hold Teresa back because apparently they thought she was going to kill Danielle. Uh...no. You don't just insult someone to their face and run the fuck away. That shit is childish. If you're gonna say it, have the balls to take what you got coming back to you.

Aside from that, someone told Teresa to "act like she has class". Wow, that'd piss me off even more! What the fuck. Danielle was the one starting all that shit and acting like a child! I'd probably yell at the guy that said that to me too. Danielle crying in the car was really over the top. Someone pulled your hair. Boohoo. I've gotten into much worse fights. Plus, after all the shit she's said and done - she deserved it.

As per Ashely saying her mom picked Danielle over her, that's fucked up. Ashley is a spoiled little bitch. Does Ashely deserve to get arrested for it? Yeah, but she doesn't deserve any real jail time since she's a first offender. Hopefully this will teach her a lesson, and she'll actually respect what her mother says now. Danielle is doing a whole pity party because an 18 yr old girl pulled her hair (which is how much teenagers react when they want to fight someone), when Daniel is over 50!!! Danielle claims it was handfuls, but it was one tug. IF any hair came out, I'm sure it didn't hurt as much as she was acting. My kids pull my hair all the time, and while it hurts, I know that they are just kids.

It's sad when the cops know you by name, and know of all your drama. That's sad. The cops here have no idea who I even am, and I'd like to keep it that way! Danielle doesn't even seem to notice that even the cops don't care for her shit!

Danielle is acting like the other women want her dead. I'm sure they wouldn't care if she died, but they aren't trying to kill her. Talk about a drama queen. She's overreacting to everything. The hair she was holding up isn't even the same color as her hair. What the hell. I'm sure Ashley didn't pull THAT much out, and if she did Danielle wouldn't be holding it. It'd be on the ground or in Ashley's possession.

Even when she is talking about her energist, Danielle is saying things like "they will go from hair pulling to killing me!". That's a big leap, honey. Her kids already don't have a mom, so obviously she is completely off the ball. It wasn't even the adults who attacked her, it was a KID. Plus, I LOVED the way she pulled over in the middle of the street blocking all of the cars to get Jaceline's number. What the fuck. Talk about a selfish, entitled bitch. Take a turn onto the nearest side street and park. Don't just stop moving in the middle of fucking traffic!

I also think it's really tacky of Danielle to be giving out Jaceline's phone number. I don't give out people's phone numbers to strangers like that. If Danielle is having such a "spiritual" problem, she needs to be dealing with it on her own and not trying to drag other people into it. That was tacky.

I can't believe that Danielle is trying to say she doesn't like to complain about people (especially legally). The cops know her by name, and all she does is complain. Nonstop. The others are trying to live their lives, and Danielle keeps dredging shit up for no reason. She's a hateful bitch with nothing better to do.

Her eyes are twitching, she has neck pain, and has a bald spot now. From one yank. Right. Uh huh, and Santa Claus has bunny ears. What the fuck ever. Talk about begging for sympathy. Yeah, Ashley is completely dangerous and will escalate to kill you - all because she yanked your hair. Oh, and you're also doing her a favor by getting her arrested. What an uppity psycho! Ashley is also NOT much larger then her. She's like half her size, and no she doesn't have anger management problems. She was protecting her mother (so she says, I don't believe it) and attacking back after all the shit Danielle has done.

I liked Chris (Jaceline's husband). He told Ashley what was what, and even after he made all of those good points I'm sure Ashley doesn't give a fuck. She still thinks she knows everything and what she does, is 100% correct. She wasn't right. She handled a bad situation, really badly. She doesn't have a right to pull her hair even if she hit her mother. Apparently, Ashley has a lot of growing up to do and if she was my daughter I would have beat the shit outta her years ago. She is treating her mother with such disrespect, that I want to pull HER hair.

Neighbor Drama

Decided to finally get off our butts today and go grocery shopping for the month. We only go when we absolutely need to, since the girls act up a lot. Our grass is turning green again, which is a good thing. Yay!

Went to go drive down the street, and the bus was there dropping off kiddlings. The bus isn't supposed to go into the actual community to drop kids off, so we thought it was weird. The "stop" sign wasn't flashing or anything, and all the kids had already gotten off the bus. Bus starts moving away, we're going about 5-10mph down the street.

Hubby slows down, doesn't stop (we were already crawling) and the chick behind the bus decides to give us the Jersey hand. So, I flipped her off. Apparently, we were wrong NOT to stop for a bus that was already moving, not dropping kids off, and not even supposed to be there. What a bitch.

I get it. There are crazy drivers in our neighborhood. However, we were going 5-10mph (prolly 5 near the bus) and we weren't speeding. We slowed down and let some kids cross the street, but when they were done we kept going. Apparently this is a big no-no in our little LDS community.

I get why she was pissed off. She thought we were going to run over the kids or whatever. However, we didn't run any kids over and we weren't speeding. According to the driver's law here, if you are on the opposite side of a school bus, you ONLY slow down IF they don't have their lights flashing. So, naturally we weren't breaking any laws and not purposely trying to run anyone over.

I'm starting to wonder why these people have such a problem with US, when THEY are the ones that speed around the corner by my house almost doing wheelies in their cars. I mean what the fuck. Way to pick the entirely WRONG battle! If you don't like how people are driving, pick on the people that actually DO SOMETHING WRONG!

What a bitch. I'm happy I screamed coke whore out the window and flipped her off. I didn't appreciate her nasty attitude. It's not like we were speeding or running over kids. We were already driving really slow, and making sure we were letting kids cross the street.

Side note: Who the fuck allows thei 4 yr old on a school bus? Apparently, that is the norm around here. I'll NEVER let my kid take a school bus that young. What a bunch of fucked up parents. (This is AFTER the first day we moved in, our terribad neighbors actually FORGOT their kid was coming home from school. I had to call the cops and wait for Mommy-dearest to come home. Apparently, she forgot all about her kid. Terrible parents!)

Sunday, September 5, 2010

After Midnight

A couple guildies and I joined a pug ICC 10 today. Two healers, both from my guild and one dps who was rocking the charts easily. The leader was Xristöph - whom brought a couple of his guildies Kennar and Caleka. No issues the first few bosses, took a bit for my guildies to stop rolling when they weren't supposed to be (Xristöph was using a mod roller/loot system). We did heroic gunship (my guildie was the one who made it heroic), and Midnight Sun dropped. (I wasn't the one that rolled on it, nor wanted it) Thing happened with the offhand off of Deathswhisper, guildie rolled too earlier and it was given to the lock - and my guildie's original roll was ignored, which was higher. We brushed it off as our mistake.

Apparently, Caleka and Kennar don't understand why it was a little screwed up to roll on a healer weapon against the person who not only made it heroic (and the only healer that could use it) but that there are several other dps weapons that are better. He won the roll. I'm not upset that he didn't get the weapon or whatever. I'm not even really upset that they rolled on it. Shadow priest can easily use the mp5, etc. I should add that Kennar actually congrats my friend for winning, but Caleka was obviously pissed she lost.

However, I was curious as to why they rolled on it. So, I made the comment: "why did the dps roll on that healer weapon?" I KNOW there are MUCH better weapons out there for dps, but there are very little weapons for healers. So, I was curious. Apparently, that was uncalled for!

After that I started getting spammed in raid things like "CHILL OUT! HE WON IT ANYWAYS!!!!" Things like that - remember I had only asked why, and not even in caps (was the only thing I really said). So, I said Caleka needed to stop acting like such a !#!@# (she was the one going off the entire time, and didn't even know how to kite the blood beasts). She was spamming the #@%% out of raid and freaking out, over what I had said. I'm not sure why she had the reaction she did. I wasn't even mean about it.

The raid leader, Xristöph, didn't like that I called his friend a !#!@#. So he starts spamming tells to me with things like: "I don't like how you called my friend a !#!@#, apologize. I don't see what your problem is." I obviously said no, and told him to stop messaging me or we'd leave the raid. I said something later in tells to Xristöph like "I don't roll on your #@%%, so why would you roll on that when there are much better dps weapons?" I wasn't even really making a super huge deal out of it. I didn't want to come off as Caleka did. So, I tried to keep my mouth shut and basically tell him to leave me the hell alone or I'd jet the raid. I wound up getting spammed for another boss fight, and up to the Valks. Total of about 15minutes, and you can't exactly ignore the raid leader - or shouldn't. So, I tried to remain tactful about the whole thing (though I did say I didn't appreciate her sicking her guard dog on me). I said basically if she didn't like being called a !#!@#, then she shouldn't act like a psycho over just an inquiry. I wasn't even mean about it when I asked, and her reaction was a serious overreaction.

I was trying to heal, and I told him several times to stop messaging me because I didn't care what he thought about what I had said. When he continued to spam me, I said something in raid. Basically telling him to stop messaging me because I am healing. That's when the #@%% hit the fan.

We were in the middle of fighting a Valk. I was healing the tank (Ringer), our other tank had dced after Saurfang. Xristöph didn't like me saying something in raid about his tells, and he removes me from raid mid-fight (Caleka told me to stop QQing and being a !#!@# - apparently copycat insults are still considered insulting - I laughed and warned the tank to get out because I was removed from raid). Then removes my guildies. Obviously, causing a wipe. Obviously, ruining the raid. I wasn't QQing, and I wasn't even really that upset about the whole thing. I was honestly wondering why they felt it was okay to freak out that much in raid just because I had asked a simple question. I was curious why they would roll on something like that, when obviously, there are MUCH better weapons for dps.

My problem is this. I don't care if people roll on #@%% that is better the what they are wearing. I honestly don't. My friend won the #@%% anyways. I was just curious as to WHY they had rolled. They couldda said something like "Oh, it gives me +20000 crit" and I would have said awesome I get it. But, to purposely act that childish was what made me make this post.

I am a GM of my own guild. I tell my guildies not to do things like that, nor ninja, it's a quick way to get gkicked. I'm not even going to judge that guild based off of what happened. I'm sure the GM either doesn't care or still doesn't know. Plus, 3 people in a guild doesn't reflect the WHOLE guild.

In the end, I don't like what happened and I thought I should warn people. The tank who died was a decent tank and a good guy (I feel bad for the others that got needless repair bills too, and a wasted week for ICC 10). I have common sense that if I don't like someone, or don't want to raid with them anymore - I'll leave willingly. In fact, I was actually going to leave after that pull. However, purposely wiping a raid and causing that much drama over something so small is what really bothers me.

I just wanted to shout that out there and let people know how these 3 individuals acted. I'm not a fan of people acting like psychos in the middle of a raid, nor purposely causing wipes...hell, I didn't even like the fact the guy was spamming me. But, I could have ignored him. Hell, usually I'm a super @@!! to people like that but this time I decided that the raid was going decently and not to make a big deal out of it. We would have stayed if they didn't send the tells, or start talking !*#@ in raid.

TLDR: Purposely causing a raid wipe over a question, and purposely kicking raid members mid-pull.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Vitelity LLC AKA US Directory

I got a call this morning on my cellphone at 8:35am. This is illegal for three reasons. Their number is 516-953-1168.

1- It was before 9am
2- I'm on the national do not call list
3- Their business phone line is supposed to be a 1-800 or 1-888 number. According to federal law, you cannot require customers (prospective or not) to call you back in regards to ANYTHING as a business without one of those two numbers. This is obviously NOT a free phone number.

I got the call, they didn't leave a message and hung up after 2 rings. It wasn't my cellphone, but my husband's. Naturally wondering who the fuck would call MY house that early and wake up my kids, I called back. A ghetto kid answered. I asked why they called my cellphone, he pretends like he can't hear me and hangs up.

So, I mulled over it a bit. I got instantly angrier. I now have two kids awake, and this jackass could hear me perfectly fine (I could hear myself through his speakers). I called back. Sat on hold for about 45minutes, getting madder and madder.

Almost same exact voice, same exact kid. Ghetto speaking, sounds like he doesn't even have a license. Pretty much a young piece of shit that hung up on me earlier. He asks for my name this time. (??) I tell him it's none of his business, and then ask why he's calling my phone at 8am. No response. I tell him off and tell him to get a license (I know, off the wall). I tell him he's lucky I'm not shutting down his company after what he did since I'm an attorney. (I stopped working for the kiddlings) That he broke 3 federal laws and never to call my number again.

You know what he says? "God bless you too". Not you little fucking twat, apparently you don't understand. I have two kids screaming now because you fucking had the nerve to call my number when you're not supposed to. So, I rail into him more. He keeps repeating "God bless you". So I lose it. I say, if God wanted to bless me he wouldn't of put assholes like you on this planet. You don't call someone's house this early, especially if you don't know them and if you're running a shit business - you DEFINATELY don't break any laws!!

So, I hang up. Do some digging. Apparently, this is a scam. They are looking for personal information in order to scam you. It's based in Florida, and the Attorney General has caught wind of it already. So, if you get these calls too - file a complaint!