Big Love: Season 1, Episode 4

If you are forcing your #1 spouse to schedule your nights with your other wives, and she does it efficiently...when she gives you the sheet of paper - remember who's fucking turn it is jackass! How difficult can that be. He's not even the one stressing over doing all the planning, he sits pretty and just goes to whatever house is on the list. You can't even blame that on his "many responsibilities". It's really not fucking hard. Look at the paper, go to said house. And to make matters worse, he looked so disgusted just because had to hand her a heating pad and a midol. Omg, wow, that is so fucked up.

When you wake up with a boner, you don't need to jerk off in order to get rid of it. In fact, that usually takes longer. The minute you stop thinking about it and worrying is how it goes away. Which usually takes about 5-10minutes. Asked the husband and 3 other male relatives for this response.

Nikki shouldn't complain about how her shit was screwed up with the party, when she's the one that wanted it and ruined it. She also shouldn't complain about tablecloths being ruined, when she shouldn't of used them. Especially, shouldn't of bought such exspensive ones. I'm not sure why Nikki needs to be such a controlling bitch about the sheets. At least she was slightly understanding about the situation, however she didn't need to be such a forceful bitch about it.

I'm honestly not even surprised that Nikki is getting calls from debt collectors. If she had gotten a handle on her spending, it wouldn't have been such an issue. I'm not sure why she even wanted all that new stuff for anyways, she has young MALE children in her house. Anything she brings in there is likely to be destroyed before the year is up. I know, I have two FEMALE kids. She shouldn't even be attempting to hide this from people either. She's in serious trouble and could lose the house, or maybe more. She is definitely drawing attention to their "situation".

The neighbors are getting creepier. Before watching them like hawks, being all creepy with the introduction (only when it was beneficial to them), and now standing outside the front door trying to star inside? Why is this any of his business anyways? Why does it matter if the neighbor is their babysitter or anything else for that matter? Apparently the neighbor is also sexist, why wouldn't he talk to Barb? What is the issue with Nikki (aside from being a psychotic bitch)? For that matter, how is it any of his business...again? I think it was just a ruse to snoop on them, and he got caught, so he didn't know what to say. Now he has time to figure out a decent excuse. I also don't think it was right to treat the girls like they didn't have a final decision in a "house painting project". That didn't seem reason enough to blow off Barb, and it seemed rather sexist to ignore Barb like that.

Margie apparently doesn't get that they are breaking the law, and are attempting to keep their situation hush hush. She's not helping matters, and if worse comes to worse they will need to move just to keep the "family" together. God, what an idiot of her. This is NOT the time to want to be "recognized" as part of the family. Poor baby, she's insulted because she got called a babysitter. Newsflash: You are one. If you have kids, you are their insta-babysitter. No reason to get all huffy about it. No one cares about your feelings when it comes to security.

What is wrong with Margie not wanting to help out when Nikki obviously has something more important to do then stare at a scale. I'm sure the other wives have babysat Margie's kids before (we saw them on several occassions), and honestly Margie seems self-absorbed.

I did find it funny how Nikki went directly into a manipulation tactic of: Well, I need money..."Oh ask Barb"...You give her too much power... Oh my god...she went to her father/prophet for money. After the way Bill told her that he was bad, she just went right ahead anyways. She's also lying through her fucking teeth! Now, I see why she's lying about it. Because he's a co-signer on her credit cards. What a dumb fuck. What happens when her kid REALLY has the chicken pox? What the hell! $6,000! That's only one card too!! Good of her father to remove himself as co-signer. She deserved that shit, I loved her face through it too. I'm not sure why he was even coddling her anymore anyways, she doesn't even live with him anymore - and is definately an adult. He just blackmailed his own daughter.

I wasn't surprised that Roman got his brother into a scheme. I'm not even surprised that he's getting sued for his other triangle schemes. I think that's justice. However, I don't think Roman is really scared shitless about it. I think he's slightly worried, but usually those schemes aren't really taken to court. It's always hard to find the man at the top, so he's fairly safe.

However, I WAS insulted at how Bill told Barb to ask the other two wives if it was okay that she work. Why the fuck would she need to do that? I know it might technically affect the other wives, but you know what, she's allowed to have her own life too. In fact, they could use the money. So, what's the big deal?

Apparently Nikki went shopping after her "emergency". She hasn't learned her lesson at all. I know she is pmsing, but that doesn't give her the excuse to constantly act like this, and yes the outfit was her fault. It was originally left in her hands, and if she had time to go to Gap - then she had time to fix it. She shouldn't left it in the care of Margie (btw get over the babysitter thing, it's been a few hours), who obviously can't even make a bottle properly. I also don't think Nikki has any right to get mad at anyone for anything, so far she has created these little fits in order to get her way. She did mean to upset him. She purposely does what she wants and has no care if people get mad at her. I think she doesn't care who she hurts with what she does, as long as she gets to do whatever she wants to do.

I love the Suzi Orman show, and she had a point. Nikki doesn't even know exactly how much debt there is, and since Bill is legally responsible for that debt too - he really needs to know. What happens when he goes to open up a new store and he can't get the credit for it? He's definitely going to know then. At least, she is now taking responsibility for her actions. Or at least attempting to. She's probably going to go back into denial land, and for shit! $60,000! Holy shit! That's like 3 new cars!

I'm not sure if this is what the show's creators are trying to convey, but I'm sorry, most people don't talk to God in their dreams. In fact, even if God did talk to someone, I'm pretty sure they'd remember and be able to tell immediately. I don't think God does some type of drive-by enlightening.

I know that people can get addicted to pretty much everything, however I don't think that many people get addicted to TV. LOL I think we have more of a problem with drinking, drugs, and sex. Some people get so addicted to porn that they don't move from their computer in days! Those are serious addictions, TV not so much.

When Nikki locked herself in the bathroom, I saw it as a childish temper tantrum. I have no respect for "adults" who act like children. She's been acting worse then her 5 yr old this entire show so far. I'm really not impressed with the actors or their roles so far. The only person I have somewhat respect for is Barb. If I knew Nikki in real life, I'd beat the shit out of her. Telling her that her children need her, really doesn't work with someone like that. Hold up a pair of brand new cowboy boots, and she'll smell it. That will get her selfish ass out. I don't think Nikki has ANY say in what Barb does or doesn't do with her life. If anything, Nikki should be all over that - what with being $60k in debt. (I also think she needs to stop with the nasty looks)

I think it's pretty unbalanced that Barb has to take care of everything, while Bill goes out hunting and doing whatever he wants to do. Barb is dealing with majority of the issues, and honestly it doesn't seem like he cares at all about her. I am praying that somewhere in this, she actually gets the balls to leave his ass.

I'm not sure why the teenager (Sarah) even decided to go to that party, or why she is downing cough syrup like there is no tomorrow. Sarah also looks like she is out of place, and really uncomfortable. So, why is she even there? Her friend totally ditched her, just leave. Apparently her friend REALLY is a whore. Who the fuck basically has sex out in the open like that? For that matter, with someone she just met? Her friend is sooo classy! Good thing the LDS chick showed up when she did.

I'm not sure why Bill is acting like some starved lunatic. Sure, he fasted for a day, big whoop. It was only 24 hrs, and honestly, you don't act like that after fasting. You just eat bigger portions, and usually it's a sit-down meal. Not pulling out left overs and feasting like a starved monster. Get a plate and stop being so disgusting, you freak! (PS. I hate jello, that looked even nastier) No, fasting does not make you hallucinate. I think he's a little psychotic to begin with, and add on this "stress" that he caused himself - he's seeing shit he shouldn't. No, I don't think it's a vision from God. I think he's just a fruitball to begin with. (IF he fasted longer then that, he's a fucking idiot)